Six Doors · No. 38
第38卦 睽 Kuí · Opposition
Essence: Estranged yet related; work the small common ground.
Judgment
Positions have diverged and eyes look in different directions, so grand unity is out of reach for now. Yet estrangement is not enmity—beneath the differences a common root remains. Do not force agreement on the large questions; cooperate on small concrete matters, and trust will accumulate there.
Trigrams
Upper
Lower
The lines
- Line 1Do not chase what has strayed—it returns on its own; and if an adversary appears, meeting him openly costs you nothing.
- Line 2When formal channels are blocked, an informal meeting in a side lane serves just as well.
- Line 3Everything seems dragged back and every effort insulted—yet this is only a hard beginning, not the ending.
- Line 4Isolated by the rift, you find one person of like mind; met with full sincerity, the danger passes.
- Line 5Once the barrier gives way as easily as teeth through soft skin, there is no fault in going forward to reconnect.
- Line 6Suspicion at its worst sees mud-caked pigs and wagonloads of ghosts—lower the drawn bow, and the stranger turns out to be kin coming to join you.
All the doors
Every single-step transition available from where you stand.
- Line 164 未济 · Before Completion
Not yet across; the ending is still yours to shape.
- Line 221 噬嗑 · Biting Through
Bite through the obstruction; only then can the jaws close.
- Line 314 大有 · Great Possession
Great holdings; abundance ruled by clarity and grace.
- Line 441 损 · Decrease
Give from the surface to strengthen the core.
- Line 510 履 · Treading
Treading behind the tiger; tact keeps you unbitten.
- Line 654 归妹 · The Marrying Maiden
Entering on unequal terms; know the terms before you enter.